Thanks! but my parents raised me right
I lived a big part (most of my adult life) out of Kuwait … I learned how to become independent .. make my own decisions.. take care of my own finances … and basically make sure that I am alive every day …
Although sometimes I complain about daily(or in my case weekly or monthly) work like laundry and making(aka buying) dinner … I enjoyed living alone and having my own place no matter how small it was… my own furniture…my art .. my kitchen…my own everything!
My parents sent me out as a college boy and I became an independent working man (I worked abroad for a while) … and isn’t that what parents want in life for their kids to grow up?!
So why then when I came back I found myself stripped from many privileges grownups should have? Why can’t “I” a university graduate and a project manager can’t have my own place? why do I have to go back to my old bedroom (which I love) when I am not that kid anymore … I don’t have the money to build a house and I don’t want to ask for any… so why can’t I rent my own place just like I was living for the past eight years? Oh it’s because I am a bachelor … a potential corruption to society? so if I was a 40-year-old bachelor (hopefully not) I have three choices: take a loan and build a house, get married to anyone and rent a place ((which brings me to another question … do divorcee or widowers get to keep their rented apartment or do they get evicted?)) , continue living in my parents house in my old bedroom (btw I love my parents and they are veeeeery open minded people and rarely interfere .. but still)
So tell me again Why can’t I an independent man who has a good job and make good money can’t have my own independent place?
Well… Thanks! but my parent did all the raising and they raised me right