Complain vs. Complain
Com.plain:(defn.) express dissatisfaction or annoyance about a state of affairs or an event
It’s no secret that people complain a lot about everything and everyone … and it’s no secret that in the 23rd happiest country in the world (yet to be confirmed 🙂 ) there’s a whole lot of complaining going around … and based on my own observation and study there is an average of 5complaints/person/day … but the question here is “complaining” a good or a bad thing?
In my own humble opinion, I believe that there are two ways to complain; a negative way and a positive way.
What makes a negative complaint? It is when people constantly complain about things that they don’t want to change.. can’t change..or too lazy to change … complaints that are the outcome of greed.. bitterness .. envy.. selfishness ..purposeless … these are complaints that add to the problems but never become part of the solution…I must say that I’ve heard my share of these complaints …
So what is a positive complaint? It is when people complain about things that must and can be changed… when the complaining becomes part of a solution rather than the problem … when it is part of a better cause rather than just an individual … when it is a way to make a point or to raise a voice … or maybe at time just to vent out…
So next time we feel like complaining lets take a second to see if it’s a good or a bad thing!